Posted by Sarah on June 28, 19100 at 21:52:48:
In Reply to: THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER posted by Cindi on June 28, 19100 at 17:14:25:
Cindi-
What a wonderful, empathetic message! Yes, of course we are all desperate to have a child (or we certainly wouldn't be putting ourselves through all of this and seeking solace on a Message Board - yikes!). But, it is important as you so lucidly reminded us to cherish every moment that we have today because tomorrow will bring new challenges and rewards - maybe even a child! While, we all will be grateful as you so obviously are, we won't ever be able to turn the clock back on the day before. You are so right! We must welcome and enjoy the challenges and joys of each day as they are today because we don't want to ever look back and realize that we wasted precious time and relationships while we struggled to get pregnant. I'm sorry to say, that the poster who disagreed appears to be doing just that and it is that bitterness and anger that will consume us and push others away when we need them the most. Thank you for sharing your experience!